A man who truly loves you, these three things are absolutely unbearable

When the phone screen lights up with "the other person is typing..." but there is no news for a long time, when on a date, his gaze is always fixed on the live broadcast of a soccer game, and when you say he has a cold, he only responds with "drink more hot water" - these moments always make people wonder: does he really care? Actually, judging sincerity is not that complicated. Some instincts are like warning devices in the body, which will automatically sound when encountering specific situations.

1. Can't stand you hurting yourself

1. Oh no When you see yourself eating only apples all day to lose weight, or staying up late watching TV shows until 3am, the person who really cares will directly snatch the coffee cup from your hand. They may not say fancy words, but they will stuff hot milk into your hand and set an alarm to force you to eat on time. This kind of 'motherly worry' is the tension hidden in the details.

2. Negative Self Negation

When you say "I'm so fat and ugly" in front of the mirror, it immediately turns into a repeating machine: "Who said that? It's obviously super cute!" This is not a perfunctory comfort, but a sincere feeling that you're even cute, just like the blind preference that parents always think their children are the most beautiful.

2. Unable to bear your grievances

1. Harm caused by outsiders

When you are ostracized by colleagues or the courier's attitude is bad, he may remain calm on the surface and turn around to help you study labor law provisions or complaint procedures. Although I won't stand up for you in a fight, I will silently prepare all the 'weapons', and once this' protecting the calf' mode is activated, it won't stop.

2. Self Sacrificial Giving

If you have a habit of pleasing others, such as helping everyone barbecue hungry at parties, he will be the first to pile the grilled meat into your bowl. People who care about you are the least likely to see you as a "sticky note girl" and would rather be a villain than break this cycle of giving.

3. Can't stand you pushing him away

1. Hold on when you're sick

You hoarsely say "I can go to the hospital myself if it's okay", and he has already checked the registration guide for a tertiary hospital and is waiting downstairs. When the thermometer shows 38 degrees, the person who can't even cook instant noodles at ordinary times suddenly can cook decent porridge in front of the menu. This "extraordinary play" only occurs when you are weak.

2. Silence when faced with difficulties

If he detects that you are feeling down but pretends to be okay, he will transform into a humanoid excavator and slowly pry open your mouth with silly questions like "Is that milk tea shop going bankrupt. For those who care about you, your show of strength is like a crack on transparent glass that cannot be hidden at all.

"Can't help it" in feelings is never an earth shaking event, but hidden in the tangles of those who want to manage but dare not manage too much, hiding in the yawn of listening to your roast when they are very sleepy. If you encounter such a person, you may try to put down the "I'm good" armor, after all, it's so cold in winter, and it's also good to have someone willing to be your constant temperature hand warmer.