When the screen of your phone lights up, you are always waiting for the name that will never automatically pop up; The carefully prepared dinner turned cold and hot, but in the dialogue box, there was only the green strip you emitted. Some signals are like ice flowers on winter glass, so clear that they make people tremble, but we often pretend not to see them.

1. Passive communication has become the norm
1. Unilateral topic relay
Every time we chat, you throw out a topic, and the other party only responds briefly with "um" or "oh". Just like when playing table tennis, the opponent never receives the ball, and all conversations end up falling on your side.
2. Delayed response cycle
Although it shows "online", the message is like a drifting bottle floating on the sea for three days. Important things are always busy, taking a shower can last for eight hours, and sleeping can last Over the entire weekend.
2. You don't have a place in future planning
1. Avoid long-term commitments
When it comes to next year's travel plans, change the topic and use busy work as an excuse for parents. In his future list, even pet dogs have exclusive collars, but your name is nowhere to be placed.
2. Refuse deep bundling
Refuse to share any services that require long-term binding, from video website memberships to gym cards. It seems like your relationship is like a convenience store closing the pot, where you can unplug and terminate the heating at any time.
3. Serious imbalance of emotional investment
1. Emotional value One way street
When he is not doing well at work, you have to be a 24-hour tree hole, and if you catch a cold or have a fever, you only get to "drink more hot water". The deposit in the emotional bank is always unilaterally recharged by you.
2. Always absent from important moments
Birthday anniversaries always have unexpected situations, and you are at the bottom of the hospital's accompanying list. The moments that need him are like winning the lottery, most of the time thank you for your patronage.
4. There is a barrier in social circles
1. Friends' gatherings never overlap
His brother group always "takes you next time", and he always works overtime when your girlfriends have dinner together. Your circle of friends is like a parallel universe, operating independently and never intersecting.
2. Stay invisible in online interactions
Social media platforms never like your updates, and photos are always private Confidential photo album. It's like wearing an invisible ring, only you can see that relationship.
5. Body language begins to retreat
1. Kiss Close contact has sharply decreased
hugs have become like business etiquette, kisses are perfunctory like postmarks. Once glued like 502 glue, now maintaining a safe distance is like the morning rush hour on the subway.
2. Private Space Expansion
The phone screen is tilted at a 45 degree angle, and you should bring your phone into the bathroom when taking a shower. Suddenly needing a lot of 'alone time', as if rehearsing for a single life. There is no sudden lack of love in the adult world, only exit signals that you haven't noticed. When you start comparing this article item by item, the answer is already in your mind. A good relationship should be like a warm hand in winter, it can keep heating up without needing to be recharged repeatedly. If you always hold onto a piece of ice, you can release your hand and let the snowflakes drift away.
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