When a woman behaves like this, it means she no longer has you in her heart. Don't foolishly give in anymore

Have you ever encountered a situation where, despite saying goodnight to each other every day, she starts using "um" instead of "goodnight"; The message that used to reply in seconds now has to wait for most of the day; Whenever I ask her out, I always say 'I'm so busy lately'. These subtle changes are like ice flowers on a winter window, seemingly beautiful but imbued with a chill.

1. communication frequency drops sharply [SEP]. In psychology, there is a "social currency theory" that when a person is no longer willing to invest time costs in a relationship, it often means that their emotional account has been overdrawn.

2. Avoid deep communication

Chatting and gossiping can help, but once it touches on future plans or emotional topics, change direction. The establishment of this' topic safe zone 'is essentially a psychological boundary delineation. Just like when a phone is in Do Not Disturb mode, it's not that you can't receive prompts, it's just that you choose not to respond.

2. There has been a significant change in behavior patterns

1. Cancel the joint future plan

No longer discuss next year's travel plans, and the excuses given to parents are becoming increasingly bizarre. The reward mechanism of the brain is very honest. When dopamine secretion decreases, the motivation to plan for the future naturally weakens.

2. Social circle reshuffle

Suddenly, there are new friends you don't know gathering together, and there are no photos of you in your social circle. Relationship psychologists have found that when a person begins to rebuild their independent social circle, it is often a precursor to emotional detachment.

III. Body Language Exposure Psychological Distance

1. Micro expression management failure

When meeting, the smile cannot reach the corner of the eye, and hugging turns into patting the shoulder. Anthropologist Hall proposed the concept of "close body", which states that 1.2 meters is close The final line of defense for a secret relationship, the retreat beyond this distance, is the most honest answer.

2. Increased defensive body movements

Hugging arms, looking at phones, and frequently tidying up clothes during conversations are like a firewall set up by the body. Neuroscience shows that when a person experiences resistance, the degree of limb stiffness increases by about 37%.

4. Emotional response mechanism turned off

1. Decreased empathy ability

When you are promoted, she responds calmly, and when you are sick, she only recommends drinking more water. Mirror neurons are the biological basis of human empathy, and when they stop "reflecting" other people's emotions, it usually means that emotional connections are broken.

2. Selective filtering of memory system

Forgetting anniversaries may be busy, but continuously forgetting foods or important habits that you are allergic to indicates that the brain has archived relevant memories as "non essential information". Research on neuroplasticity shows that the level of importance determines the strength of memory. The farewell of adults does not require ceremony, the gradually disappearing desire to share, the constantly retreating physical distance, and the continuously decreasing level of concern are all more authentic answers than words. Instead of repeatedly testing on the frozen lake, it's better to leave warmth for those who are willing to resist the cold winter with you. Healthy relatives A close relationship should be like a warm stove in winter, capable of continuously emitting warmth without the need to desperately add firewood.