The more men behave like this, the more women despise them! Have you been hit?

I don't know if you've noticed, but some habits are like invisible deductions. Although you think there's nothing wrong with them, they can make the other person furrow their brow more and more. For example, the corner where socks are always thrown around, or the toothpaste cap that is always wrong when brushing teeth... Today, let's talk about behaviors that are easily overlooked but particularly lower the impression score.

1. The "minefield" in hygiene habits

1. Details and loopholes in personal cleaning

The faint black edges in the nail crevices and the yellowish sweat stains on the shirt collar are particularly eye-catching when in close contact. Research has found that the human brain will instinctively reject dirty pictures, which can not be covered up by spraying perfume.

2. Chaos index of living space

There are snack bags from three days ago piled up on the bed, and traces of unknown liquid drying on the computer desk. This environment can send a signal of 'lack of self-management', and what worries people more than the dirtiness itself is the attitude towards life reflected behind it.

II. communication Methods Life Injury

1. The always online preaching mode

turns chatting into one-sided output of opinions, constantly saying "you should" and "I suggest". This condescending communication style is the easiest to dampen the enthusiasm for dialogue. Effective communication requires a sense of breath, just like playing table tennis requires a back and forth.

2. Three consecutive perfunctory responses

The words "um", "oh", and "whatever" can be considered as emotional cooling tools, especially when the other party shares important things. This mechanical response can cause intimacy to plummet. In fact, it only takes three more seconds to organize language, and the effect is very different.

3. Embarrassing moments in social situations [SEP].

2. Words and actions with blurred boundaries

Calling and drinking at the waiter, casually commenting on others' appearance, these details often reveal true cultivation more than major events. The essence of gentlemanly demeanor is to know how to maintain dignity for everyone.

4. Dangerous Signals for Emotional Maintenance

1. Promises turn into empty promises

Promising to go hiking together on the weekend, but before departure, they say they want to play games; The bad habit that I promised to change remains the same after three months. This kind of dishonest behavior will be like sand in an hourglass, slowly leaking out trust reserves.

2. Uncontrolled moments in emotional management

Falling chopsticks when delivering food late or smashing keyboards when losing a game can cause safety anxiety among bystanders. The charm of adults lies not in never getting angry, but in knowing how to express anger reasonably.

Actually, it's not difficult to change these behaviors, the key is to have a radar that can detect them. Why don't you stand at the door and take a deep breath for three seconds before going home tonight, and use the eyes of a stranger to observe your own life situation. Change is never meant to please anyone, but to make oneself a more comfortable existence. After all, a good relationship is like a warm hand in winter, with just the right temperature to hold it in your hand for a long time.